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What have you learned from being in love?
03-11-2004 Female (Age: 17, cerritos, California)
Response:
Love is love.. only feelings and emotions run by actions can define
love. Love can break a person in half, or can lift a person right
up. Love only gives off two affects; either a good one where you
can be happy, or a bad one where you remain miserable and depressed.
I believe that love at such a young age doesn't exist, but there
are the very tiny tiny tiny exceptions. There isn't enough experience
in a young person's life to have learned from being in love. It
takes years of experience: heartbreak, jealousy, depression, excitement,
etc. To be in love is to be able to sacrifice everything for that
person to be happy; it is to strive your hardest and give 110% for
him/her. To be truly in love for me is to have the special someone
look at me when im throwing up, and sick to my stomach and say to
me "You're beautiful!" Love is a complicated thing..
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What have you learned from being in love?
03-09-2004 Male (Age: 28, ANDOVER, Massachusetts) Response:
She completes me. |
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What have you learned from being in love?
03-09-2004 Female (Age: 43, Augusta, Maine) Response:
My husband and i can be in the same room and without saying anything
verbally to each other, i can still feel the love he has for me. He
looks at me in this way that I know, that he knows , we love each
other deeply. |
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What have you learned from being divorced?
03-08-2004 Male (Age: 51, Vegas, Nevada)
Years Married: 26 Years | Years Divorced: 8 Months Response:
It takes years to build trust and only seconds to destroy it. |
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What have you learned from being divorced?
03-08-2004 Male (Age: 47, Rome, Ohio)
Years Married: 18 Years | Years Divorced: 3 Years Response:
When I got divorced, it was nasty. I remember I had all these ideas
of getting back at her, i even wrote them down. I found the pad of
paper, all those ideas written out. I laughed. I'm so glad i never
went through with all those ideas of " getting back " My
life is pretty darn good today. |
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What have you learned from a failed relationship?
03-06-2004 Female (Age: 26, Arch Cape, Oregon)
Years Together: 7 Months | Years Separated: 3 Months Response:
Never go out with any of his good friends. Our relationship was over
and I started to date one of his friends. It turned out that our private
sexual times were being talked about with my ex, through his friend
, the man that i was dating. Obviously i broke off the relationship.
I was humiliated beyond belief. I learned a grave lession in the process.
I wILL never date a friend of an ex . tO close for comfort. |
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What have you learned from a failed relationship?
03-04-2004 Male (Age: 31, Pawlet, Vermont)
Years Together: 2 Years | Years Separated: 7 Months Response:
The way she would dress when we would go out would bother me. I mention
many times " could you please wear something a little less revealing.
You look like your on the prowl, looking for another man." I
should of gone with my gut feeling. When she left she said in a shity
tone " I was looking for someone else and I found him. I just
used you, better than being alone." I have learned ,watch how
your women dresses. It will say alot about who they are. |
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What have you learned from a failed relationship?
03-05-2004 Female (Age: 37, Naperville, Illinois)
Years Together: 6 Years | Years Separated: 1 Month Response:
Emotional distress 24--7 |
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What have you learned from a failed relationship?
03-02-2004 Male (Age: 43, Deerfield, Illinois)
Years Together: 18 Years | Years Separated: 1 Year Response:
I found this in a book and I feel it sums up my experiences very well:
A warrior of the Light He knows that certain moments repeat themselves.Then
the warrior realizes that these repeated experiences have but one
aim: to teach him what he does not want to learn. Every Warrior: Has
felt afraid of going into battle. At some time in the past lied or
betrayed someone. Has trodden a path that was not his. H uffered for
the most trivial of reason. Has at least once, believed that he was
not a Warrior of the Light. Has failed in his spiritual duties. He
h aid "yes" when he wanted to say "no." Has hurt
someone he loved. Now and then, he is disappointed, sometimes he gets
hurt, but the warrior knows that it is worth it. For every defeat,
he has two victories in his favor. Yesterday's pain is the Warrior
of the Light's strength. The warrior has learned that G-D uses solitude
to teach us how to live with other people, he uses rage to show us
the infinite value of peace, he uses boredom to underline the importance
of adventure and spontaneity, he uses silence to teach us to use words
responsibly, he uses tiredness so that we can understand the values
of waking up, he uses illness to underline the blessings of good health,
he uses death to show us the importance of life. A warrior knows he
has a much to be grateful for, he is the first to remember and he
makes sure to share the rewards he receives. |
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What have you learned from a failed relationship?
03-03-2004 Male (Age: 20, wheaton, Illinois)
Years Together: N/A | Years Separated: N/A Response:
I HAVE LEARNED THAT FALLING IN LOVE IS MUCH EASIER THAN FALLING OUT
OF LOVE. THAT TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE AND COMMUNICATION IS EVERYTHING.
I HAVE ALSO LEARNED THAT WHEN IN A RELATIONSHIP TO NEVER PUT ALL YOUR
EGGS IN ONE BASKET! |
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What have you learned from being in love?
02-29-2004 Female (Age: 43, Wheaton, Illinois) Response:
It has been awhile since I've been in love but I hold deep inside
my knowing of what kind of love is possible. A glance at one another
without a word, your heart melts. A vibration, in the depths of your
soul, where you have to remind yourself to breathe. A touch that you
ask for more. A kiss that lingers in your memory, excited, knowing
there will always be more. Love, sweet love. When one crys the other
taste salt. To be connected on a level of awareness, strength and
passion. I know this to be true. |
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What have you learned from being divorced?
03-07-2004 Male (Age: 56, Roseland, Florida)
Years Married: 32 Years | Years Divorced: 9 Months Response:
During my divorce I still had the key to my home which I know longer
lived in, moved in to a condo. I called my daughter to tell her i
was going over to" the home " to pick up the rest of my
things. She gave me the ok. Her mother was not supposed to be home.
Walked in and heard some rumble in the family room. Walked around
the corner and there was my soon to be ex wife with MY lawyer. I will
not go into detail what they were doing. Use your imagination. She
screamed. He stood there with is paints down. Needless to say I was
shocked. I wanted to grab him and punch his lights out. Yes, i found
a new lawyer and reported him to the bar association. My word, if
you can't trust your lawyer through your divorce, who can you trust! |
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What have you learned from being divorced?
03-05-2004 Male (Age: 47, Baton Rouge, Louisiana)
Years Married: 7 Years | Years Divorced: 5 Months Response:
I will never again have a SEXLESS marriage. |
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What have you learned from being divorced?
03-03-2004 Female (Age: 32, Boone, West Virginia)
Years Married: 3 Years | Years Divorced: 3 Months Response:
You learn to really appreciate a dollar. |
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What have you learned from being divorced?
03-03-2004 Male (Age: 97, Augusta, Maine)
Years Married: 30 Years | Years Divorced: 41 Years Response:
Good morning to all, I am a very old man and I have come to understand
we must have compassion not only for others but in our marriages.
I was 27 years old when I got married but I did not have compassion
and understanding. I never took what she was going through to heart.
No matter what it was. I should have been compassionate with her wants,
need, anything that was near and dear to her. I was ignorant. She
left after 30 years, I don't blame her. After all these years I do
understand what and how she must have felt. Unforuntely back then
years ago, I was deaf to understanding. I never did remarry but, I
could correct what I didn't do in my marriage so long ago. I have
showed my grandchildren and my greatgrand children the gift of being
compassionate and kind. I want them be able to have good loving marriages
and relationships, to learn from my mistakes. To answer your question"
be compassionate, be kind, loving and talk to on another" there
could never be enough I love you's. Take the time to truley understand.
I am an old man but I know the wisdom that I can pass on to all. |
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What have you learned from being divorced?
03-03-2004 Male (Age: 38, Portland, Maine)
Years Married: 11 Months | Years Divorced: 2 Years Response:
You need law books and a dictionary just too read the divorce papers.
What have you learned from being in love?
03-06-2004 Female (Age: 42, Jasper, Michigan)
Response:
Even when i am running around in my old beat up sweats my husband
will look at me laughing saying " I just love you." You
know its love when you look grungey and he stills loves you. |
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What have you learned from being in love?
03-06-2004 Male (Age: 42, Hana, Hawaii) Response:
My wife had very long hair. She decided to cut it short. She wanted
a change. Well, the cut was awful she cried. I looked at her with
loving eyes and told her" I still love you it's just hair "
She ran into my arms and cried harder. |
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What have you learned from being in love?
03-05-2004 Female (Age: 76, PERKINS, Georgia) Response:
TO ALL YOU YOUNGINS OUT THERE, Remember love comes in different stages
in your life together. From a tatoo proclaiming your love, having
children, being empty nesters, watching your grandchildren grow. From
the young to the inbetween to the old , how we handle each situation
with our spouse will determin our being in love, lasting love. Don't
waste your time on pettyness. learn to forgive, find time to play,
learn to listen, have romantic dinners with and without the children,
hug each other, kiss each other, play soft music, hold each other
and dance. Always make time for intimacy, and learn to pray together.
For 61 yrs. i had this and more with my Jimmy We had a grand life
together. |
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What have you learned from being in love?
03-05-2004 Female (Age: 27, Paul, Idaho) Response:
Its ok to say " I'm sorry." admit when your wrong. |
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